Young woman crying, single tear running down her cheek, a hint of a smileCan you control your voice when you feel overwhelmed with emotion?
I’m intrigued by how some people seem to be able to hold it together and remain poised as they perform or speak publicly.
Many actors have found a way to do this. Have you?
Hear more about this interesting phenomenon in today’s VOX Daily.

Bernadette’s Tears

When I was in high school, our school’s Fine Arts department took a trip to New York City. Any student participating in choir, orchestra and band was invited to go on this trip with the purpose of gaining a new perspective on what a career in the arts could look like.
We visited cultural institutions such as the Metropolitan Museum of Art, Lincoln Center, and the American Academy of Dramatic Arts to name a few and also were able to see a real Broadway show.

Annie Get Your Gun - Bernadette PetersThe group I was in attended a performance of Annie Get Your Gun. Bernadette Peters played the title role. Although the show was amazing, the one memory that remains with me to this day is how Bernadette Peters was able to sing through her tears. Even as tears streamed down her cheeks, she was able to sing clearly, expressively and without wavering one bit.
Whether the piece actually moved her to tears or those tears were produced on command I do not know. What I do know is that she was able to perform in such a way that her emotions, while present, did not overtake the professionalism of her performance or compromise her vocal composure.
It isn’t often that you witness someone being able to control their voice while crying but it can be done.

Can You Do That?

Perhaps you have mastered this skill as an actor and might have some wisdom to share.
If you are able to speak evenly or sing through tears, be sure to comment on this post and let us know how it’s done!
Best wishes,
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Stephanie Ciccarelli is the Co-Founder and Chief Brand Officer of Classically trained in voice, piano, violin and musical theatre, as well as a respected mentor and industry speaker, Stephanie graduated with a Bachelor of Musical Arts from the Don Wright Faculty of Music at the University of Western Ontario. Possessing a great love for imparting knowledge and empowering others, her podcast Sound Stories serves an audience that wants to achieve excellence in storytelling. Stephanie is found on the PROFIT Magazine W100 list three times (2013, 2015 and 2016), a ranking of Canada's top female entrepreneurs, and is the author of Voice Acting for Dummies®.


  1. While recording an audiobook, I have been moved to tears by much fine writing, and being so involved as one must be in a book when narrating, living with it for so extended a period of time, I deal with this often. Since I come from a theatre background, taken many an acting class, (and singing lessons too — you can’t really cry and sing at the same time since the vocal cords constrict while sobbing, but you can make it sound and look as if you were) I have learned to use this in my narration. The most important thing is to be in control — to use the emotion in one’s voice — in first person narration and character voices (the third person omniscient narrator has to keep a certain distance) — by harnassing the authenticity of that feeling. There is such a passage in the novel I recorded last year “Alcestis” in which I feel I reached that perfect almost-cry at a particularly poignant, climactic moment for the character in the story.


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