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It doesn't matter what's weighing you down, it doesn't matter what the specific details of your traumatic experience were. This video can help you an insane amount of people right now in the United States especially are struggling with loneliness, depressive thoughts, feeling meaningless, feeling broken. You're not alone. In fact, you're part of the vast majority who believe or not while this is by no means a good thing for humanity. It's at least comforting knowing that you're not alone. In fact, nine out of 10 people walking down the street, if you stop them and ask could likely relate to the struggle that you're going through right now. And when you realize that everyone relates to your struggle, it becomes easier to reach out for help, becomes easier to share your experiences and it becomes easier to open your mind and your ears, to new advice and and outside looking in perspectives on your particular situation, which can only offer you probably more solutions than you could think of yourself. So the ground rule is, don't suffer alone when you don't have to. That's the ground rule. That's what you need to drill into your head before we move forward into this video. And now that we got that out, the way I want to basically break this down into a step by step step format so that you can all follow along and regardless of your situation and your particular experiences, I want everyone to be able to follow this and apply it to their own life and actually see an impact of, of following these steps and doing what it is that I'm sharing with you here. So step one is to clean the slate. Now, this process is not easy by any means and it can be very deceptive because most people think that they've accomplished this feeling once they, you know, they get started on this motivational journey, they have that initial fire inside of them and they're ready to go. But as soon as that feeling that motivation fleets, they circle right back to ground zero and they basically, you know, fall right back into their old habits, they start smoking again, they start drinking again. They start, they're not committed to the long haul for that, you know, habitual change. They haven't fully committed for the long run. And the biggest mistake here is that, you know, your, your, your God is essentially your feelings. That's, that's the biggest mistake. If your God is your feelings, if you answer only to your feelings, right, then it's not gonna serve you well. It's, it's gonna lead you into these cyclical loops of madness. And insanity and depression, it's not good. So, you know, you need to look yourself in the mirror and ask yourself, you know, is my God my feelings because if it is, then you know, that's not, you need to change that, you need to change that very quickly. It's totally normal for motivation to go away. It's totally normal for a feeling to come and go. The key is not to cast some spell that allows you not to feel these things or not to think these things anymore. The key is to learn how to manage the feelings and the thoughts that naturally flow through you, ok? You can't really do anything to stop them. But what you can do is you can manage and react to them appropriately. So that's what we're going to be focusing on training your mind to be able to do so that you can, you can just be a vessel for things to flow through and, and not really be so affected when you know, things don't go your way. You need to trust in God's plan for you and you need to trust in the trials that he throws at you and counter your negative thoughts with a passion to prove in the name of what would make God proud and in the name of what would be morally, right, you know, and what's morally right for you on an individual level is to become the strongest and smartest and most capable and most spiritually aware version of yourself that you can possibly be. That is God's plan for you. That is God's mission for you. He wants to build you into the best version of yourself. But that's not possible if you don't understand the difference between feelings, morality thoughts and, and where they come from and how to control them. So if you're not ready to, you know, commit this to the long haul and to not answer to your feelings anymore, then you're just gonna stay stuck where you're at right now. And if that's what you want to do, you know, if you're OK with that, if, if you really need to answer to your feelings more than anything, you know, you're not willing to accept any, any sort of boundaries or any sort of rules that anyone sets or, or you're not able to accept a, you know, you're not able to thrive in a leadership position, you're not able to thrive in a non leadership position. You know, different situations are gonna call you to sort of behave a certain way, depending on, you know, what you want out of those situations. And if you're not willing to not answer to your feelings most of the time in those situations, then you're just gonna stay stuck. So we talked about this a little bit in the, in the intro, but step two is take accountability. OK? Now, like I said, it doesn't matter what the particular details or specific traumatic events or whatever your situation is, that's bogging you down, that's casting this gray cloud over your head. It doesn't matter what those details are. Ok. I hate to sound insensitive to your situation, but the truth is, you know, I'm sure if you're watching this and you want to start fresh, you know, you've probably done enough sulking at this point to where I, you know, you're not looking for someone and just, oh you poor thing, you know, you don't want pity anymore. I'm hoping so. You know, the point is take accountability for your actions, take accountability for all the things that happened to you leading up to this moment, even if something happened to you, that was totally horrific and out of your control. You know, either a, in most cases, OK? I don't want to sound like a, you know, a complete psychopath here because I understand, you know, people take advantage of, you know, clearly weaker people like an adult to a child in some cases, you know, and I don't really think I have to speak too much more on, on what I'm getting at here. But I understand that certain situations are just like you're ******* helpless, you're completely helpless and that's fine. I understand that. But what you're not helpless about is the way that you process that experience, the way that you use it to, to help you move forward if, if at all because that's likely the problem is that you're using this experience to anchor you down to some sort of belief or some sort of victim identity that you're clinging to because you feel like that's gonna give you what you want or that's gonna give you, you know, the best chance at getting attention or, or whatever it is that you're seeking internally, subconsciously, you wanna call it. So you need to cut the whole victim act all together. If, if you feel like you're a victim of that experience, then that's where you're wrong right there. That's your answer. That's why you can't move forward. That's why you feel anchored down is because you're clinging to this victim identity. And the first thing you can, you, the first thing you have to do before you can take accountability is release that victim identity. Just let it out. You're not a victim, you're not OK. You know, victims are killed, victim, victims are tortured. Some of you may be victim maybe. And you know, I'm very sorry for what happened to you. But if you, if you wanna keep clinging to that identity, then you're just, you're simply just gonna stay where you are. I don't have any better way to put it. And if you clicked on this video, it's likely that you don't want to be where you are. So I'm telling you that you need to let go of the victim identity period. You know, you're an adult and you are responsible no one else for how you internalize the world and the experiences around you that you go through at the end of the day, you need to take ownership of everything that happens to you. Because most cases, if it weren't for a choice that you made somewhere down the timeline, you wouldn't be where you're at right now, you wouldn't. So instead of asking why me, it's time to start asking how can I become better and how can I become someone that's always better? Despite how I feel, how can I make better choices? Despite how I feel, the simplest way to put this into practice is to start thinking with this framework. I don't serve my feelings. I serve what is right? I serve morality. If you think like that, then you won't feel like a victim for, for very long. If you can get yourself to start thinking like that, then you're not gonna feel like a victim anymore. I promise you. And you can start living out this mentality by literally just doing one good simple thing for somebody every day, a compliment, you know, give the homeless guy a dollar, whatever it is. Just do one nice act a day. You don't have to think too hard about it, but just something that's gonna make you feel like, yeah, you know, I made that person feel good and that's gonna make you feel good and you know, over time this domino effect of holy crap. You know, doing things for other people can make me feel so good. But all I've been doing is just soaking in my own feelings. You know, when really I could have just gone out and, you know, started being, being a great person and I just felt a whole lot better right out the gate. So take accountability for your actions. Ok. Live with the mindset that you're not a victim that you serve morality and start by just going out and just doing a nice thing for somebody every day saying a nice thing to somebody every day. And you're still, you're gonna start to feel naturally a whole lot better. So step three and this is where, unfortunately, I might lose some of you. But step three is let God into your life. Please let God into your life. I don't wanna make this a religious debate video. I don't wanna make this a worship video. Ok? All I'm saying is just that I'm aware that, you know, religion isn't really what's and it's likely not in the scope of answers you were looking for when you're sort of searching for a solution to your particular problem. But let me be the one to tell you, please please how much of a life changing impact this can have on anyone's life of, of any faith. I it doesn't so much matter the particular faith. I'm a Christian personally. So I believe you know, in order to get into heaven, you have to accept Jesus Christ as your, as your God and as your, you know, as your superior and as your Lord and, and leader, you have to accept Jesus Christ, you have to accept that he walked on this earth or else you don't get into heaven. That's just what I believe. That's Christianity in a nutshell. But if you don't believe that I'm not here to convert you, I'm not here to, you know, whatever I'm here to tell you that if you don't have a form of God in you for life, you are doomed for a miserable existence. Because, ok, if you don't have the true God, in my case, Jesus Christ in your life, then you will naturally worship something else that's not Jesus Christ. Ok? And, or you will, uh, worship something else, you know, that's not Allah or that's not Buddha or that's not whatever it is. But I disagree with some of those religions, but they all have one thing in common, which is they have a central figurehead or a God that preaches good morals and good and a good moral spectrum on humanity. And he gives you a foundation and a rubric for how he wants you to live life. And the people that stick to that rubric generally live very happy and fruitful and fulfilling and nourishing lives filled with, you know, people that love them and, and a big family and, you know, people that stand for something that's not what they feel, you know, all of those religions, they accomplish that in a sense. So that's why I'm really not opposed to anyone practicing any religion. But when you don't have any form of God or, or belief in a higher structure of morality in your life, you know, you don't feel like you don't have the fear of being judged one day. You know what I mean by some sort of divine counsel. If that fear is not inside of you because that's, that's a reality as I see it. And if that fear is not inside you, then you're gonna naturally, you're gonna fear something else. You're gonna fear missing out on stupid parties and, and demonic experiences. You're gonna fear being alone, you're gonna fear, you know what could happen to you. If you take that risk and start that business, you know, you're gonna fear all these things, you're gonna worship yourself, you're gonna paint yourself as God. You're gonna, you're gonna have the belief that you are God. You're gonna have the belief that you're here to serve yourself and your feelings and what makes you feel good and that's not what you're here to do at all. That is why everything negative in the world is happening today is for that particular reason, which is why I started this video saying no matter what your situation is, this can help you because everything that's wrong with the world. Is it, it, it, it's rooted in this issue here. It's rooted in the issue that we have become self serving. We have become a species that serves our own feelings rather than serves what's morally right? And what's been laid out for us? We didn't create this world. Ok. We, we, we rent, we, we rent the earth, it's God's earth, we're renting it and we, he's our landlord. We have to answer it like you're gonna get evicted. You understand you, you're not gonna be accepted and it's not just not, not being accepted by God. It's also not being accepted by your peers. If, if you don't, the devil is gonna get a grip on you somehow, ok? And you're gonna start to worship things that do nothing but cause internal and external destruction. Many of you do believe in God, but you have no idea what he truly wants for you. You have no idea what he, how he wants you to live. He's literally provided us with a blueprint on how to live your life and how to feel fulfilled and how to, how to behave on this earth that he's provided to you, ok? And people have sworn by this blueprint for thousands of years, thousands of years. Yet in today's society, we can't even nurture a relationship that lasts longer than six months or a year or two years before it's a divorce or a breakup or a an argument or a heartbreak or whatever the case, no one can commit to anything and they can't commit to God. And that is why you feel alone. That is why you feel miserable. That is why you feel depressed. It's not because of that particular instance that happened to you. It's because you don't, you can't handle it because you don't know how to live properly. You serve your feelings, you don't serve what is right. Getting close to God teaches you something that you can't put a price on. It teaches you how to love properly. It teaches you how to love somebody else the same way that your God loves you. And it's hard to fathom that actual amount of love because love in today's society has become so intimate. Intimate is the wrong word. Love in today's society has become like so over sexualized in some cases where it's like, you think the only parts of love are like the kissy intimate, like mushy parts of it. And that's really, that's only like the surface level, you know, and as soon as like as soon as you don't feel sexually attracted to that person anymore, you feel like you don't love them anymore. You know, and you're not willing to do anything to reinvigorate that sexual attraction. You're more so, just worried on I'm gonna serve how I feel in this moment and I'm just gonna leave him, you know, and that's not productive to society at all. It's not productive to you becoming a fulfilled feeling person. It's not, it's not productive to you becoming happy. So God will teach you how to love. God will teach you what it really means. God will teach you how to sacrifice and He will teach you why these things are so important and at the end of the day, how easy they really are, you know, and how good they make you feel. And these are real, these aren't fake, little like chemically lab made feelings of, of good. These are true, natural feelings of good that you can't, you can't fabricate you. You understand, you can't fabricate these, these things, the answers of how to love and how to feel and how to live. You know, in a general sense, have been laid out for us for thousands of years. Who are we to come and change it and say that no, it has to be this way. It has to adhere to how you feel. It has to adhere to how this demographic feels. That's all ********. It's just all ********. The sooner you learn how to appreciate the lessons that God has laid out for you, the sooner you find peace and the sooner you're able to trust people again, the sooner you're able to trust God, once you can trust him and once you feel that He trusts you and loves you, you will trust people again. You will love people again. You know, don't you want to feel that? You know, why would you reject that? You know, that's my proposal to you is why would you reject that? That's the answer you've been looking for all along. You know, why would you reject that? Find God. You know, don't serve yourself. Just don't, don't do it. It's not, it's not fulfilled. Step four. That's the fun part. Work. Yeah, it's not gonna be easy. You probably thought it was gonna be easy. No, you can't just click on some magic video that's gonna fix your ******* life and then you're, you're better. It doesn't work like that. OK? This is not the pharmaceutical industry. Uh I cannot just serve you some capsule that you know, lies to you and tells you that it magically fixes your problems. Ok? First things first you will feel sad again, you will feel depressed again. You will feel angry again at some point. I can almost promise you that you will feel these things again. I don't mean to be the bearer of bad news here. But as long as you're a human, you will go through life with the full spectrum of emotions just like the rest of us and it's up to you to handle them properly and to work regardless. Now we talked about that, you know, initial sense of motivation that you're likely feeling maybe right now from watching this video or from watching other videos or from just someone screaming at you for six straight weeks that you're a bum or you, you know, stop being a sad sack of **** and you just finally had enough and that's all great and you should feel motivated. So, what we're gonna do first is we're gonna ******* use that motivation to the fullest extent. Go kick *** this week. You know, if you have to show up to work tomorrow and it's gonna kill your vibe, don't look at it that way. Go to work tomorrow. Kick *** be the best at whatever it is that you do and do that all ******* week, come home from work and instead of just going, laying down and sulking, come home and, and you know, go work out, strategize uh a workout routine for yourself on your lunch break and then do the workout when you come home and then when you're done doing a workout, think, ok, what else do I really enjoy doing? That's productive and go do it and do it really well and just do that for a week. And that's how we can start working progressively towards, you know, feeling better and feeling more fulfilled. It's gonna sort of, it's gonna advance itself from this point, but this is where we can start work is innately fulfilling in nature. It, you know, while it does take a toll on you, it also makes you feel fantastic. It makes you feel accomplished, it makes you feel like you can respect yourself. If you work hard, it makes you feel like you can make an impact on society. It makes you feel like you have something to provide something to offer when you can work hard and become proficient at, at a particular skill or particular craft or with particular knowledge, with sharing particular knowledge. That's a skill. If you can become proficient at any of these things, it will make you feel fulfilled, it will fill the holes that are there, it will fill in the holes in your heart, the holes in your mind, the holes in your soul. These are all things that can come in and, and fill in those gaps for you is doing hard work, taking accountability, you know, taking action towards productive things and it sounds so cliche and so obvious. But as soon as you lose that, that first week's motivation, you're gonna stop doing it. So it's really not that obvious because if it was so obvious, you would do it despite how you feel, period. And this is how you're gonna gain the respect of people who do actually have the power to like monetarily or physically improve the situation you're in, by helping you or by coaching you or by, you know, signing you on to their program or by giving you a job, you know, you're not gonna gain the respect of these people who have the power to help you. If you are not willing to get off your ***. If you're not willing to obsessively, you know, practice that thing that you're trying to get good at. If you're not willing to go all in, then no one is going to take you seriously. And in the context of the home, you know, put less attention on your phone, put the video games down and actually put work into like if it needs repairing, repair bonds that you have with your family, you know, do you guys sit down for a dinner every night and have, you know, laughter and discussion and, and these things? Do you go out once a week with them and, you know, just spend a couple hours a week just doing something like family time. Are you living in their house? Are you not living in their house? Do you have to drive to go see them once a week? Do you have to fit that into your schedule? Do you have to make time for your parents or your sister or your siblings and aunts and uncles and put an effort into bringing people together when you can and just sharing some time with your family that's fulfilling in nature in and of itself. You don't have to do work or do something strenuous with your family. You can just relax and enjoy time with them, but the work comes in actually repairing the bonds that have likely been severed over the years, repairing, you know, the awkwardness that the awkward tension that lies in the air within your home. You know, you feel like you can't bring up certain subjects to certain people in the home for whatever reasons, it's your job and it's your obligation as someone who's trying to improve, to improve these things and to open the door for discussion with your parents or with your mom or with your sister, whatever the issue is that's causing you guys not to feel like such a family. It's your job after watching this video to, you know, open that door and to, to take that step towards bringing people together have that family discussion, you know, pass the ******* talking stick around if you have to, whatever you have to do, do it, do it do it. Don't just sit on your *** and act like you, you know, things will magically fix themselves one day or act like you don't care if they fix themselves or not because you probably do. You probably do. So, don't lie to yourself. Don't, don't serve your feelings in the moment of just, you know, oh well, that's not important right now. I have so much more other important **** going on that. That's why I can't, you know, spend time with my family because all these things are weighing me down. I'm so stressed. I don't have, that's all ********. It's all ********. You should care and you, you should take the time to repair any bonds if they're severed any relationships. If they need nourishing or attention or treatment, go treat those relationships because one day that person's gonna leave one day, that person's not gonna be there. One day that person's gonna die. One day that person is gonna walk away from you and you're gonna feel like your whole world just stopped, you know, but all the moments leading up to that, you didn't even recognize that the whole world is right in front of you the whole time, the whole time. And now we're gonna talk about work as it pertains to you as the individual. It's time to put some relentless obsessive work into you. And I'm not saying that you need to change everything about yourself, but you can't ignore the fact that you likely probably need to change something or else you wouldn't have clicked on this video in the first place you said. Yep, that's me. I need to start fresh click. So, you know, take the advice, you probably need to change something. The first assignment I really have for you is to sit down and just be honest with yourself about where you fall short. Be honest with yourself about your weaknesses. Be honest with yourself about your shortcomings. Where are you and what aspects of life are you not enough in, in what areas of human interaction? Do you not bring anything to the table? You know what I mean? Be honest with yourself and write them down or, or get an idea or a grasp of what those things are and you need to sit and vow to yourself. Vow to yourself that despite the noise around me, despite what my friends say I should do, despite what these idiots tell me, I should be, you know, doing this to live my life a certain way, whatever the noise is, vow to yourself that you're gonna make these changes and you're going to put in this work, regardless, regardless of who turns a blind eye to you or walks out of your life. This is not about them. This is about you. Assignment number two is to find a particular passion or a skill that you have for something. And assignment number two is to find something that you have a passion for, that you have skill for and gain all the knowledge in the world on that subject, gain all the practice and all the knowledge in the world at that craft, whatever it is that you're passionate about, whatever your hobby is that you feel like you want to turn into a business one day, whatever it is, go crazy just gaining every single bit of knowledge and study and research on that topic as you can, right it all down in a notebook, whatever you're passionate about, it doesn't have to be a business. You know, it could be starting a business and, and getting things up and running or it could just be running the most productive and happiest and healthiest, most fulfilled family that you could ever imagine or provide for in your life. Maybe that's your goal. Maybe your goal is to be the best father possible on earth. Go figure out how to do that obsess over it. You know, if your goal is to be the best inventor that the world has ever seen, you know, you better start studying some, some engineering, at least, you know, and, and some philosophy and some marketing and all these different things. You're not even close to being where you need to be. So go get to work just gaining the knowledge. That's the first step to any process, to any endeavor is to gain the knowledge on how to do that process properly. The best way, the most effective way for you don't ever think that passion, purpose, wealth and life have anything to do with money or business or, or finance. You know, none of these things have, have anything to do with that passion and wealth comes from life. It comes from family, it comes from feeling fulfillment, which we, you cannot get from artificial means. You need, you need to acquire fulfillment through natural means or it doesn't last, it just fades away and you circle and you loop in these cycles. Because whatever it is that you're doing, if you can admit to yourself that you're stuck in some loop, then somewhere along the lines you're giving yourself some artificial form of something where you should be using the natural form of it. Point blank. Don't let any doctor or politician or any news broadcaster ever tell you anything different than the answers to your problems. They, they, they always lie in self improvement and nature. They don't lie in these artificial means. So somewhere along the lines, you're supplementing some desire for something with an artificial fix and you need to figure out what that is and do something about it ASAP. That's where the work comes in for you personally. So here's the steps. Clean the slate, take accountability, let God in and then work. You do those four things as we've discussed them in this video and you actually take it the **** seriously. And you don't give up after week one when you stop feeling motivated and when those sad thoughts creep back in and, and you don't have the, the fight in you to beat them back down every time they try and stand up in your, in your brain, then, then you're stuck, then you're stuck. You can watch this video back 100 times and it's not gonna help you until you actually act on these four steps. Period.