What all men want is respect.
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when men say they want peace of mind, it's I don't know, it's kind of confusing because I don't know who or any human on earth who doesn't want to have peace. It seems like we women are attributed to chaos or confusion anywhere. Today I'll be talking about that Good evening everybody or Good morning wherever you are. I do not know what time it says. Well, thank you for tuning in today's episodes and starting a new series and I'm going to call this series bitter feminist edition because I feel like it's one of the things that most Nigerians wouldn't want to hear Nigerian men, but I would actually do it and say it anyway. I probably have to talk about it lisa in the comments or send it to my email if he gets that bad. But I'm ready to listen to it. Anyway. So today I'm talking about this popular term that most Nigerian men use and it says men need peace and respect, not love. All right, I am a victim of this because I do not understand what someone wants to. Um I don't understand why someone calls respect. Okay. Someone honors you with everything showers, you will love showers with your resources. Looks out for you, praise for you, talks to you. Even when it is inconvenient, goes out of their way to do stuff for you. And then probably the president doesn't bend or become esteemed as you want the person to be. And then you go all else. And then you're talking about how the woman is not being respectful, how the woman is not treating you right? How the woman is. All the bathrooms in the world. This is the same pressing who was actually there for you? Who listened to you, who you talk to when you have issues, who cared high resources with you. And then when you talk about how many won't respectful exactly is respect those respects means I should not share my grievances those respects me. But I am piece. That's something. I should just shut my mouth and not talk. Put those respects mean in this context it's actually been bothering me a lot. But I feel like I really need to talk about it because it's becoming a very serious issue. When someone is obviously hurting you. The person is gaslighting you by saying you're not being respectful enough. Even when you've looked at the relationship and you see that you've actually given yourself In 100% for that particular relationship. So what exactly do you men call respect? I'd like to know. Please tell me send or leave a comment for me. So I understand. Well, we need to come to a realization that women are not the enemies here. Yes. You say women are emotional. What's wrong with being emotional? What's wrong with being emotional? I wouldn't want to be in a relationship that makes me feel like I am not good enough. I wouldn't want to be with somebody. That makes me feel like I am not trying. Even when I have done everything, I have loved you the way I felt and I feel if someone loves me, I shoot, I would be grateful. So please. We need to actually understand that everybody deserves your own respects. Everybody deserves respect. Does not mean I have to I cannot talk when I am ******. It doesn't mean that I cannot share my view about ingredients. It doesn't mean when when you're saying something that's obviously not going to over with me as you probably just ignore because you're the man and I'm supposed to be respectful to you. We are humans as well. We have emotions. And then when you say things that are hurtful, we act in that in that manner as well. You don't seem people's emotions because you're trying to he wants them to service your ego or anything. If anyone is one more man preaches to me about this restriction, man, I'm going to stay single for the rest of my life. I do not care how anybody is going to take it. But really we need to really look into this. It's becoming a very crazy thing that I hear it every single day. I see everywhere. Man wants peace. Who the heck doesn't want peace and harmony? Does anybody out there carry the placard? I want chaos. Nobody does. Everybody deserves your own respect. Everybody deserves love. I don't know why you people are saying you no longer wants love is not respect. I can only respect somebody I care. I love about love. All right. So, when you say love is not respect, I feel like you guys are confusing yourself a lot. Really. I know this episode is so unlike me and I'm probably not being emotional about something I'm going true, but I feel like I should have to start doing this edition because I know it's going to stay. A lot of people walk, but whatever it is, I am ready for it. So, thank you guys for tuning in. Please share your thoughts about what you call respect. Every man and a woman. Have you ever been in a situation where a man is dragging or axing for respect and don't dig down within you. You know, you're actually giving your all for that particular man. I'd like to know Piche. I'm going to leave my email. Please be free to send me messages out response to them in my next podcast. Thank you so much for listening. Have a good day all night. Hi
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Storyteller, Millennial, Amusing, Calm, Informative, African (General)