Expressing sad and upsetting emotions with a sensitive topic.
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I'm a nice guy. Is that a problem? Welcome back everybody to the Random PM podcast and in today's episode we're gonna be talking about it being the nice guy really is a problem or is it just like low key? You should just be nice because that's what you're supposed to do now. I've done a ton of research okay. And by research, I mean I asked a bunch of different girls, but I think I have a kind of clear answer and I'm gonna be real. It's not looking good for the nice guys. Let's be real. Now before I get into it, I want to say if you're genuinely a good person, don't change based on what I'm about to say, okay. Because eventually girls are gonna be get tired of being treated like crap and they're gonna get tight tired of being broken over and over and over again even though they know they're going to get hurt over and over and over again, but can't seem to have the I. Q. Level of, oh, you know what? Maybe I should go with somebody good. But no, they want to go for some f boy named Tyler or Zach who they know is going to break their heart. But you know what through the nice guys, right? But here's the thing. So I'm gonna tell you what a few of the growth have said like I'm gonna kind of summarize basically what they've said and then maybe y'all will be able to tell what's the problem and what's not? So here was the majority answer I asked do you like the nice guy or do you want a guy that like you know is gonna do you wrong but you want to be with him anyway and pretty much nine out of 10 of them really said I want the guy who I already know it's gonna kind of hurt me but I want that anyway. So I was like okay why in the majority of them were either a because I liked the drama or number two because I want to be able to fix them. Okay well first of all you Cheryl Emily Madison whatever your girl name is, you're not fixing him okay, you can try but you're gonna get broken anyway. But that was the majority of the answer. Now don't get me wrong, not every girl out there is bad. A few girls were like you know what, I want the nice guy because I've been treated bad in the past and I don't wanna keep being treated bad over and over and over again. But that wasn't the majority of girls which is um the problem here, right? And so I asked a couple more questions which don't really relate to this but I'm gonna be real if you're a nice guy out there, I don't think you have the shot now I have a deep conversation last night and they basically said that that nice guy mentality is really playing the victim and I mean if you think about it, it kind of is like, oh I want you to feel pity for me, I'm trying to be nice to you and so I want you to be pretty. But then does that give like all the girls are like, oh guys never share their feelings. Guys are all this mean individual, but that's what you don't want. So you all are confusing me. Okay. Do you want the guy who wants to share his feelings and you know care about you or you want the guy that doesn't give two fluffs about how you feel, who's gonna treat you like you're an absolute piece of crap on the ground. Is that what you want? Is that what is that what we gotta do nowadays to get a girl like do we need to act broken so that they can come fix us even though they know they, I mean hopefully deep down they know they can't, is that the strategy that I'm missing out on because of so shoot I can act broken. And then the one of the girls was like, oh it's all about confidence, okay. And I was like, okay, so one if I'm one of being nice one, if the only way I can feel confident is if I'm nice, right? But no, don't be nice anymore. Guys don't don't be that guy. You know what I'm gonna tell you two times. No, actually I think it was no two times where I was being well no, because the first time she did have a boyfriend. So I don't know what I thought I was doing but let me tell you about this one girl and if she's listening well I don't really care anymore but I thought I had a shot a small one but I did and I was like you know what I'm gonna be the nice guy. Oh you need help with this this and that okay I'm gonna help you out and I didn't get nothing now I didn't go into it expecting to get anything but I just thought I like this girl so this right is to be nice to her right wrong, wrong, wrong, wrong, wrong, wrong. I didn't get anything but the dude who was treating her like crap oh but they ended up together right? I don't want to come up here and sound like I'm complaining right? Like I don't want to be like oh boo hoo me I'm gonna be single for the rest of my life yada yada yada. Like I had a girlfriend broke up with her because I was a bad boyfriend but I'm not trying to we're not going to get into that right now. But um yeah like I'm not trying to be all pity and pitiful and all. Please the girl come date me but bro isn't enough enough like bro I promise you the girls are going to turn the guys even worse than they claim us to be because you want that, you want that guy, you want the f boy, you want the boy who doesn't give to really doesn't care about you at all. But you know what if that is a strategy, if that's what we have to do nowadays in order to get the girl then I guess that's what we're just gonna have to do and when they go searching for the nice guy, they had their shot and they missed it and that's their l that they're going to have to take. Speaking of Els, I never take any so I just figured I'd put that out there. But yeah, I'm gonna keep this one really short. You want to know why because even if I make a whole 20 minute episode on do Nice guys really finish last um it's not gonna change anything were set in stone I guess from now on if you ever want to shout with the girl, you're just gonna have to be a jerk. Someone who doesn't care because at the end of the day that's the only strategy that works. I don't even think this episode deserves an outro because now I've low key kind of depressed myself but no, depending on me, please don't, I'll get, I'm not worried about getting a girl right now, I'm just saying bro is being nice now, the bad thing and being a oh I wish I could curse on here cause I would is being the jerk. The play, I don't know, let me know girls because clearly I'm just, I'm just too, too nice to understand, right?
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Host/Interviewer, Angry, Bold, Deep, Defeated, Sad, North American (General)