Podcast - Frenemies... How to Spot Them
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Hey with Niece does. It's your girl, Erica, your lifestyle coach and you're now listening to with these two diaries. Let's get into today's topic frenemies How to spot them. Now I'm sure that everyone has had or been exposed to at least one, but let's first define what a frenemy ISS a frenemy is a combination of the word friend and enemy. They can be a man or a woman. They wear veil of being your friend. But underneath is a rival competitors. Er they are friend to your face but secretly harbor a sense of hatred, jealousy and envy. They are your mothers, brothers, sisters, uncles, cousins, sister laws, brother laws, mother laws, neighbors, colleagues and petty churchgoers. They hand pick your self esteem, but they are really here to make you stronger and more self aware of who you are. Here are the top 11 signs of identifying a frenemy number 11. They are mimics. They observe everything you do to put you down, but then, on the flip side, try to one up you into exactly the same thing in the same or similar way. They want to compete with you to outshine and take the spotlight off of you. Number 10. They are emotionally inconsistent. They love you one day, but put you down the next. You can feel your stomach twisting and turning by. There. Comments. They leave you confused. They try to throw you off guard number nine. They tell you your secrets to others. They will take your most heartbreaking events in your life, like your failures and not so nice things, and shame you with them in front of strangers and common France to make you look less appealing in the eyes of others. Number eight. Their users self selfish takers and are opportunists. They want you to feel undervalued. Number seven. They covet your life. They want to be you and try to figure out how you have gotten great things in your life and why they don't have him. Number six. They will try to make you doubt yourself in your decisions and always make you think twice about yourself. Number five. They encourage unhealthy behavior and encourage you to self sabotage your life. I like hanging out with the wrong people, dating the Mirian, down, eating bad foods, not working out over drinking, etcetera. They want to keep your energy at a lower vibration in order to keep you down. They talked down about your friends. This is number four and close people. Then you have in your life. They are jealous and envious off your other friends and family and even your pets. They are insecure, and we're always felt the writing it. Number three. They are passive aggressive. They are emotionally violent, but in an indirect way, they give you the silent treatment that leaves you feeling empty and confused. It's a controlled tactic from a person that doesn't know even like themselves. Number two. They never apologize and never make amends. They will never change their behavior. If they do, it's not heart felt, and number one, a frenemy will ghost you always. They will disappear when they realize that they there's nothing that they can ever do to stop your success. They do this the most when you have a major milestone in your life and the glow up, such as graduating from college, losing weight, getting a new job, meeting a wonderful mate and building a successful business, the more feminine and successful you become, especially when you have success with men, the more mass they will drop. The best way to get rid of them is to ignore them and ultimately move away if you have to. If you would like to speak to me about to me, about your relationships, career dating, finances, etcetera, I offer mentoring sessions. Just go to my website www dot with the stud dot com. Sign up to become a Whitney STA and book a session under mentorship. You will find my blogger or related topics, shop pretty merchandise and see when our next group events will be held in Chicago and other locations. Also, follow me on Instagram and Facebook at Whitney STA. Stay tuned for the next episode of What Misa Diaries Kisses.