Getting over an affair audiobook audition
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EnglishVoice Age
Young Adult (18-35)Accents
North American (General)Transcript
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we tend to blame ourselves when our partners cheat. What if I made more of an effort acted the way they wanted me to was more fun or outgoing? Would that have stopped them straying? It's a natural reaction to something so damaging to our soul. We want to take responsibility for it so we can try and feel like we have some control over it. If we are to blame, we can take steps to ensure it won't happen again in the future. However, this mindset we adopt while totally normal only sets us up for more heartache. We need to note that in this instance it wasn't us, It was them. We have no control over their actions of our partners. The truth is, there are a number of reasons why partners cheat all outlined them below. And you can see where your partner fits on this spectrum. One revenge or upset. Sometimes the cheater strays out of a desire to get revenge on you. Your offense. Maybe something like spending too much time at work or neglecting them. In my case, my ex suggested part of the reason he cheated was that he suspected me of doing the same. He felt the need to get even this accusation was thrown into the mix of much to my surprise as he was fairly controlling and knew where it was and what I was doing when I wasn't with him. So it threw me for a loop when he suggested it in hindsight this revenge cheating, he said he carried out was merely to push some of the blame of his deceitful actions onto me. It's pretty much a case of they hurt me so now I'll hurt them. Perhaps they think the kids have gotten in the way of the relationship or that you don't spend enough time with them. They may have looked elsewhere because you upset them in an argument or said something damaging their ego. Infidelity due to anger is an extreme way to get back at a seemingly enraging other half, but it's surprisingly common.