Beginning Of The End

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Your entire love story is not dictated by what society deems as acceptable. You are given the liberty to create and masterfully conclude your desired outcome. All relationships have rough patches, struggles, challenges, arguments and so on, but the person or the people that can resolve this would be

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Language

English

Voice Age

Young Adult (18-35)

Accents

North American (General) North American (US West Coast - California, Portland)

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Hi, this is your emotional author and here's another cup of tea. There have been countless stories from friends and colleagues wherein they would describe their roller coaster of a relationship and ask for advice and the next steps to take. They would tell me how he or she was a dream come true yet slowly evolved into a nightmare as time progress or how they would fight about the tiniest argument. I have gone through several books, stories and even poetry where the imagery used for love is usually chaotic and downright absurd. Then it would result in a fruitful yet loving anything. The problem is we have been blinded by what other couples experience by what we see in movies and what we have coined as something normal when it comes to relationships. There are so many external factors that could cloud our judgment and we would tend to believe that what we see, read or hear should be the ideal for a healthy relationship. It goes back to my previous episodes where we talk about what type of challenges you have to overcome. What are the ideals that you should possess? What are the standards that you should hold? And what do you truly deserve? It goes back to the root of the problem, which is you. Let's talk more about it. After I present my piece entitled Beginning of the End, and we'll dive deeper into this topic. Yeah. Beginning of the end. Who would have thought that we could start? We could build a future from a tiny spark. We were madly and immature lee in love. It felt like it was a step closer to infinity. We chose to blindly enter the relationship, not waiting each other's needs. All we wanted was to be happy, no matter what cost, no matter what. We then came the day that we didn't expect. We had our first ugly argument, actions were done and words were said. We fell asleep in different beds. The next morning we started to pretend with a smile, acted like nothing happened. We chose to suppress these feelings deep inside not knowing it would someday be haunted. The day came in the blink of an eye. We were in a place we couldn't deny. We threw questions with no meaning. Said words without thinking. Someone had to decide on the ending. Even if we were talking. Then came the day that you made a choice. Without even considering my voice. You marked the end and left me hanging without a sound. Yet tears were shedding back in this empty space where we thought we would finish the race. Then again, you chose to quit. So why waste my breath? It wasn't worth it. And there you have it. The person in control of what happens next in your life is you, whether you are fed up with what's happening, you no longer feel happy, you aren't willing to resolve and rectify the current relationship. You have to choose the best for yourself. The only person who can make that decision is you and no one else, no matter how hard you try to adapt, understand cipher, hold onto the impossible. If your partner isn't willing to do the same thing for you, should you even keep trying? Is it even work the effort, patience and understanding whatever happens in stories, books, movies, series or anything that floats your boat there. Yet he is you are the author of your own story, the beginning, climax and the ending will all depend on the choices you make and the actions you take. There is no 1 to play. You chose to love a person and you chose to leave. You chose them every day or you have chosen to forget them. It's all. Yeah. I hope you guys like this episode and I'll see you in the next one. Bye for now.