Educational Narration: Informative, Conversational, Knowledgeable
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North American (General) North American (US West Coast - California, Portland)Transcript
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language differences are part and parcel of human culture. If we are to communicate effectively across cultural lines, we must learn the language of those with whom we wish to communicate in the area of love. It is similar your emotional love language and the language of your spouse maybe as different as chinese from english. No matter how hard you try to express your love in english, If your spouse only understands chinese, you will never understand how to love each other. My friend on the plane was speaking the language of affirming words to his third wife. When he said, I told her how beautiful she was, I told her I loved her, I told her how proud I was to be her husband. He was speaking love and he was sincere, but she did not understand his language. Perhaps she was looking for love in his behavior and didn't see it being sincere is not enough. We must be willing to learn our spouses primary love language. If we are to be effective communicators of love. My conclusion, after many years of marriage counseling is that there are five emotional love languages, five ways that people speak and understand emotional love. In the field of linguistics, a language may have numerous dialects or variations. Similarly, within the five basic emotional love languages, there are many dialects. The number of ways to express love within the love language is limited only to one's imagination. The important thing is to speak the love language of your spouse seldom do a husband and wife have the same primary emotional love language. We tend to speak our primary love language and we become confused when our spouse does not understand what we're communicating. We are expressing our love, but the message doesn't come through because we're speaking what to them is a foreign language therein lies the fundamental problem and it is the purpose of this book to offer a solution that is why I dare to write another book of Love. Once we discover the five basic love languages and understand our own primary love language as well as the primary love language of our spouse. We will then have the needed information to apply the ideas in the books and articles. Once you identify and learn to speak your spouse's primary love language, I believe that you will have discovered the key to a long lasting loving marriage. Love need not evaporate after the wedding, but in order to keep it alive, most of us will have to put forth the effort to learn a secondary love language. We cannot rely on our native tongue. If our spouse does not understand it. If we want them to feel the love that we're trying to communicate, we must express it in their primary love language.